Episode 15
15. Growing Your Show & Biz Through Podcast Guesting w/ Natalie Koussa
In this episode, Angie talks to Natalie Koussa, messaging and storytelling expert, all about how to refine your message and story and get booked on more podcasts.
If you are looking to get really intentional about being a guest on podcasts to grow your audience, influence, and podcast, this episode delivers the why, the how, and the motivation you need to get started on your podcast tour.
Natalie is also the creator of The Speakeasy, a program designed to help you refine your messaging and your story, find relevant podcasts to pitch to, craft your pitch, and book more shows. Go here to learn more about joining The Speakeasy. https://www.nataliekoussa.com/speakeasy?affiliate=angiemjordan
If you are ready to create a podcast that pays for your business, head over to www.podcastthatpays.com
Follow me on Instagram @angiemjordan
Join us over in my Facebook Group- Launch Grow Explode Your Podcast.
Music credit: Mavericks by Harrison Amer. A Podcast Launch Bestie production
Transcript
So today you guys, I have a
very special guest for you.
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:I'm super excited to talk
all things podcast guesting.
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:I know that a lot of you are, wanting
to grow , your current podcast and grow
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:your audience and Get more visibility.
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:And this is always a , really
great way to do that.
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:So I have miss Natalie Kusa.
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:I hope I'm saying your
last name correctly.
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:It's flawless.
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:I love it.
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:Yeah.
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:Okay.
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:every time I have a guest on it.
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:It's like, I never ask in advance.
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:And then when I do it, I'm just
like winging it, but I get it right.
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:So.
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:So happy to have you Natalie and
talk all things podcast, guesting and
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:what you're doing in your business,
because I absolutely love it.
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:So can you just start off by just
telling us a little bit about you
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:and your business and what you do?
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:Yeah, sure.
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:So I'm Natalie.
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:Hi, the through line of
my business is messaging.
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:I'm your messaging BFF.
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:I just love.
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:All things messaging.
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:So I have two main offers.
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:One is the Speakeasy, which is
all about growing your business
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:by speaking on podcasts.
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:And of course the key to speaking on
podcasts in ways that actually work
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:is having really stellar messaging.
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:And then I have Luminous,
which is my mastermind.
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:And it's all about offer
messaging, sales messaging, but
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:that's the link between the two.
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:I love that.
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:And, I think the thing that
really Attracts me to your work.
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:And that really resonates with me is it's
not just about being a podcast guest.
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:, I remember when we first
connected and you're just like,
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:it's not just about pitching.
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:I don't teach pitching.
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:I'm not just teaching pitching.
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:, and I know now why you were
like really adamant about that.
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:It's because that's literally all that's.
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:It's mostly out there.
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:It's like, it's 2, 000 a month here.
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:Let me pitch you to all these
podcasts, but there's not a lot
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:of work done around your messaging
and refining that and, and how it's
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:really going to tie back to building
your authority and your credibility.
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:So can you tell me a little bit about.
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:Why your philosophy about why messaging
is the key and so important , when
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:you are being a podcast guest?
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:Yeah, sure.
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:So to be clear, I do teach pitching, but I
don't teach only pitching and it's because
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:Anyone can get booked on podcasts, Angie.
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:Like, you know this as well as I do.
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:Anyone can get a list of 100 podcasts
and do the little featured thing on
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:their website and all that good stuff.
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:But it really depends why you
want to speak on podcasts.
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:If you want to speak on podcasts
because you want to grow your business,
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:you want to grow your podcast, if
you want to call in really aligned
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:clients, Your messaging needs to be
on point because your messaging is
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:what differentiates you between all
the other millions of people that are
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:offering exactly the same thing as you.
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:So if you're truly playing a numbers game,
sure, go ahead and just pitch yourself and
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:get booked on tons and tons of podcasts.
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:I think the only reason I would
recommend that is if you're an author
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:and you're building, you need a really
big platform to get a publishing deal
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:or just to get your book into as many
hands as possible, then I think that
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:can be a really good strategy for you.
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:But if you are selling.
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:One to one work, high end done for you
packages, you know, most of my clients are
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:working really closely with their clients.
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:You only need a handful of clients a
year and you want those clients to be
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:super aligned with what it is that you
offer and that's where you're messaging.
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:That's how you communicate with that level
of client that wants to know that you
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:really get them and you get the nuance
they're working with and you understand
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:their industry and you can get kind of
results they want and all that good stuff.
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:That's.
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:All tied up in your messaging.
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:Yeah.
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:And I love that you said what is
the reason why you're wanting to
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:be on other podcasts and , what
are your goals and it just.
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:I think it's so important.
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:And I talk about this.
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:I think I just wrote a
post about this today.
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:I've been like a content creating
machine lately for some reason.
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:I've just, I woke up, I rolled
over and I'm like, into my notes.
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:Oh, I'm so jealous.
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:It has unlocked.
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:Something has unlocked.
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:Cause I feel like I have been silent for
months and I now I'm just like, I got it.
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:And it's because I'm having a shift
in, in my messaging, going on.
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:But so I think.
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:One of the things for me when you
are starting to when you're coming
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:into the podcast space in general,
this is something that I talk about
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:with starting your own podcast.
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:It's what are your goals?
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:Like what is it that you're
truly trying to accomplish?
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:Because there are a lot of
different ways to go about it.
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:Like you said, if you are like
purely in this for the numbers and you
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:just want to be on as many podcasts.
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:As you possibly can.
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:There was a guy in a one of these
podcast groups the other day that
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:was like, I've been on 747 podcasts.
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:Here's what I've learned.
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:And I was like, holy
shit, like 747 podcasts.
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:Like it was some, it might not have
been that number exactly, but it
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:was some crazy number like that.
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:And I was just like.
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:Whoa.
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:And I think that was the
strategy behind it for him.
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:Right.
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:And so I think that there's a
lot to be said for being really
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:intentional and knowing what it is
that you're trying to accomplish and
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:what you're trying to accomplish.
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:Like what's the in, what's the end
game or what's the six month game or
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:what's the, what's the year long game?
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:Where do you want to be?
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:What is it that you're
really trying to accomplish?
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:And understanding that there are
different strategies out there.
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:There are different things for you
and things that you need to do.
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:Like when you, if you want to launch
a podcast and you're just wanting to,
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:rank in the top 10 when you launch your
podcast, there is an absolute different
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:strategy that I'm going to give you.
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:Then if you're just telling me, I really
just want to launch my podcast so that.
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:The people who are in my world can
experience me in a different way.
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:And I don't want it to be a big fanfare.
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:I'm gonna give you two different
strategies, a hundred percent.
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:So tell me, since the people who are
listening, majority of the people who
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:listen to, , this podcast are podcasters
who have existing podcasts or people
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:who want to start their podcast and a
big thing for them is podcast growth.
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:So what have you seen . In what
you do, how can that tie back to
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:being able to grow your podcast
from being on other podcasts?
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:Yeah, sure.
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:So I think even before you start
your podcast, if you've got aspiring
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:podcasters in the audience, guesting
on other people's podcasts can be such
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:an amazing stepping stone into starting
your own podcast, because You get all
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:the good bits of being on a podcast
without any of the responsibility
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:behind the scenes of the editing and the
promotion and all of that kind of stuff.
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:So I think I see a lot of people within
the Speakeasy, my podcast guesting
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:program, they come in and they tell me
I've got an ambition to start my podcast,
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:but let me start with my messaging with
speaking on somebody else's podcast.
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:Let me grow my confidence.
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:Let me just get the hang of speaking
into a mic and making it feel normal.
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:And then let me go and start my podcast.
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:So I think that's one way.
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:And then another way is, it's growing
your network in two main ways, right?
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:Like it's growing your network
with other, um, hosts so they
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:can become your future guests.
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:You can do podcast guesting swaps.
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:You are, it's basically doing what people
do when they have loads of coffee chats.
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:It's doing that, turning
it into marketing.
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:So you're.
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:Building a network with other hosts.
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:And at the same time, you're getting in
front of all of these listeners that are
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:already listening to an established show.
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:And then you mention, Oh, and on my
podcast, we do dah, dah, dah, dah, dah.
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:They're already podcast listeners, right?
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:So you're not trying to pull
them off Instagram where they're
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:like, no, no, I just want to
scroll while I'm watching Netflix.
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:Like that's, that's all
I'm doing right now.
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:They're actively choosing to find podcasts
that they're really interested in.
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:So when you mention yours.
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:They're gonna be like, Oh, amazing.
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:Let me add that podcast to my list.
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:So next time I'm out for a
run, I can listen to you.
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:Or next time I'm folding the
laundry or whenever it is.
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:Because podcasts, people that listen
to podcasts, and I know this is true
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:because I've heard you say it, Angie,
and I'm also a massive podcast listener.
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:We have moments in our days and in our
routines where we think to ourselves,
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:what podcast do I want to listen to today?
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:And then we go looking for that material.
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:So then we're really listening.
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:It's just a whole different level of
connection to social media or, you
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:know, some of the more traditional
marketing strategies for podcasts.
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:Yeah.
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:And, the biggest thing that I
want to note out of that is.
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:We are meeting people where they
already, like, we're meeting
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:people already on the podcast app.
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:, you should share , your
podcast on social media.
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:That's great, but if we can
meet them, we know that they
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:are already podcast listeners.
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:They are already on the app.
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:They, like, most podcast listeners
are always looking for the next.
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:thing to listen to, to be honest,
like we're always like, okay, , what's
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:next, and to be honest, from the
perspective of someone who listens
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:to podcasts, it's hard to find new
podcasts to listen to sometimes.
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:And, and the best way to find them is
by recommendations from people that
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:we already know, like, and trust.
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:So if somebody is already listening
to the show and then they bring
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:on, they're like, this is my.
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:My guest, this is someone who's cool.
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:Hey, this person.
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:And you find out they have a podcast too.
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:You're more likely to come
and follow you as well.
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:And that's a really good
and good growth strategy.
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:And like you said, it's also building
that network in podcasting your
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:community and your network is.
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:Everything.
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:It's like, it means so much.
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:It's such a powerful thing, your
community, building a community around
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:your existing podcast and building
that network with other podcasters is
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:so beneficial to your podcast growth
and so beneficial to even just like
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:knowledge, like we share knowledge,,
we share opportunities, we share
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:guests, we share things that are all
going to help us, , Grow together.
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:So I really, I really like, that
you brought that up, but let's
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:meet them where they're at.
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:And I think that's really important for
people to understand how they can use
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:podcast guesting to grow their audience.
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:So what would you say?
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:There are a lot of people in my audience
who want to be guests on podcasts.
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:And I'm telling you, I have such a love,
hate relationship with podcast from
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:the perspective of, well, actually
it goes both ways, but from the
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:perspective of someone who teaches.
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:Podcasting and how to grow your,
influence and your credibility and
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:sell your offers from your podcast.
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:And then just having on anybody on
your podcast as guests, that doesn't
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:make any sense for your podcast.
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:It drives me.
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:It drives me insane.
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:It drives me insane.
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:Like this podcast interview
right now is so purposeful.
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:It's valuable.
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:You don't do exactly the same
thing that I do, but it's such
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:an adjacent thing to what I do.
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:My guests are going to get a ton of value.
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:You're going to get
value from being on here.
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:Like it just, it, it
works very, very well.
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:So it's worth doing this.
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:It makes sense.
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:But what I see a lot of people, even
with guesting, it, it drives me bonkers.
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:That they're just like saying yes and
just wanting to be on everyone's podcast.
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:Okay.
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:And like, I'll see a thread.
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:. And these threads drive
me crazy in these groups.
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:And they're like, I got a podcast about
such and such who wants to be a guest.
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:And then they're just,
and I'm like, how is this?
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:How you're vetting your guests?
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:Like, how is this?
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:But anyway, I digress.
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:But I also think there has
to be a smart way for you to.
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:Look at it when you're first starting
out and you're like, okay, I want to
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:be a podcast guest and, and I am in
this place, , Natalie, just so you
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:know, I'm in this place where I'm
wanting to go on like podcast tour.
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:I, I really want to lean into
spending majority of my time,
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:my marketing being on guests.
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:Be a podcast guest and actually
podcasting on my podcast.
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:Like if I could just shut everything
out and just do that, that's
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:literally what I want to do.
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:So as someone who's just sort of
starting out, and I've been on podcasts
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:before, but never super intentionally.
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:I'm always just asked to
be on people's podcasts.
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:And then I'm like, okay, this makes sense.
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:I'll be on it.
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:But never really super intentionally,
where do you start to find these
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:podcasts that make sense for you?
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:Where do you start or is it that
you do start just being on being
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:in your random Facebook group and
saying, Hey, I talk about this.
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:Who's got a podcast and just
going out there and practicing.
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:Is that like where you just start or
is there more intentionality that you
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:should do when you're starting out?
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:So for some people, if you are the kind
of person that feels like you want to
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:do podcast guesting, but it feels really
nervous, or, you know, you just, you
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:just like, Oh, I don't know about this.
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:Yes, I would say just accept any offers
that come your way respond to those
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:random threads, get booked on a couple
of podcasts, ideally ones that not huge,
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:you know, huge numbers of people listen
to, and just use them as a practice.
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:But for someone like you, Angie, no, like
you, you don't need to be wasting your
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:for somebody that is ready to get really
intentional about, okay, which podcasts
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:are really going to be worth my time and
are going to fulfill all that criteria
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:that Angie's just said, like bring value
to the listeners, calling people that
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:I actually want to be in my community
around my business, all that good stuff.
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:I think the one thing to really be
looking at beyond are the listeners.
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:going to be interested in your
topic and likely to become clients,
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:like all of that, hopefully
kind of goes without saying.
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:I think the one thing to look
at is how much trust is there
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:between the listeners and the host.
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:Because when there's really high trust
between listeners and the host, what
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:happens is that transfer of trust.
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:So the listeners really trust the
host, because the host has earned
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:their trust right, like over the last
few months or years or however long
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:the episode, the sorry the podcast
has been running for listeners.
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:Become loyal and they, they learn
to expect a certain level of value
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:or funniness or entertainment
or vulnerability or whatever
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:it is, whatever the reasons are
they listen to that podcast.
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:And they know that the host is
only going to bring on guests
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:that match that level of quality.
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:So that's the kind of podcast.
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:And to me, that's way more important
than topic or ranking or like you just
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:said, , you can game ranking, like anyone
can have a good ranking podcast, pretty
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:much, you know, you can do a Facebook ads.
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:It doesn't necessarily mean that the
quality of the conversations are there.
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:So you want to look at trust and they're
the podcasts that you want to be pitching.
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:I love that.
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:And as you're saying that, I'm
like, I think my people trust me.
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of your people, Angie.
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:I trust you.
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:We do, we do
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:Trust me, because, , and I love that.
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:I think that's a deeper conversation
to even have with, with people who are.
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:podcasters and have their own show.
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:It's like, how do you create
that trust and that level of,
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:and get these loyal people?
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:Because then, I think I read a statistic,
, once and podcast stats are wild.
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:So like, like you, you have to take
them with a grain of salt always.
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:Cause they are, they are wild.
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:They vary wildly.
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:It's very hard to really nail down, like.
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:Really good statistics, but
I read one once like some of
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:them when they're really good.
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:I'm like, and I want to believe them.
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:I just stick with them.
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:I'm like, okay, yes, I just go with it.
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:, it was that 63 percent of listeners by
the suggestions of their podcast hosts.
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:And it that is such a high percentage.
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:Of people that will purchase from
you, they'll purchase your thing,
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:or they will purchase the thing from
someone else that you're suggesting.
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:And it goes back to trust and it goes
back to also the level of connectivity
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:that you have on this platform.
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:, it's something that just builds this
intimate relationship , with people.
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:And, so I love that, but , I want
to say, this also ties into why you
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:shouldn't just have any kind of guest
onto your show and stop having just
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:random people onto your show because
that diminishes the value and the trust
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:that people have in you to deliver the
content that they are most needing, right?
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:So that's number one.
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:, stop having just random
stuff on your show.
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:But the other thing I want to know
is , how can we tell that someone has
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:built this trust with their audience?
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:So how can I tell that when I'm
looking at this podcast that , they
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:have this trust that's built?
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:Yeah, so that's trickier but there are
a few kind of indicators that you can
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:look at to show you so a few of them are
things like when you open up your podcast
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:app, and you're scrolling that podcast.
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:What does even the quality of the
Episode titles look like, you know,
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:are they just all over the place?
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:And all right, one week we
want to talk about this thing.
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:Next week, we're talking about
something completely random, like not
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:to be down on those podcasts at all.
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:There is totally a market for
them, but they're probably not the
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:ones that you're wanting to pitch.
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:If what you're wanting to do is grow your
business by speaking on those podcasts.
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:If you just want to go and have an
amazing conversation, or if what
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:you're sharing is more kind of personal
experience and telling your story, Sure.
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:Like those might be brilliant for you,
but when you're wanting to grow your
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:business or grow your own podcast by
speaking on other people's podcasts,
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:I'd be looking for a really clear.
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:Like golden thread kind of
through line of those episodes.
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:So you can just like, Angie, your podcast
is a brilliant example of this, right?
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:It's called podcast that pays.
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:That is so obvious what it is,
hopefully that you're talking about.
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:And then even if you don't listen
to a single one of your episodes, if
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:you just scroll through every single
episode is so clearly thought about.
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:Here's something, you know, a
question you're likely to have if
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:you're starting a podcast, here's
to how to grow your podcast.
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:Here's how to get paid from your podcast.
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:That's what you're looking for
when, when you're scrolling.
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:And then I always suggest that people
listen to at least one or two episodes.
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:And if you don't want to listen to the
entire episode, just listen, at least to
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:the beginning and the end of the episodes
and just get a sense of things like.
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:What's the rapport like between
the host and the guest, you know,
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:they don't have to be best friends.
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:They don't have to know each other really
well, but you don't want it to sound
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:really awkward because then it kind of
suggests that maybe the host has got this
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:really chaotic process behind the scenes.
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:Maybe the guest has no idea.
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:What, what's going on or what
they're going to be asked.
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:That's not what you want for your
experience so have a bit of a listen.
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:And then another way that you can
really see the likelihood of trust
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:between the listeners and the host is
have a bit of a research of the host
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:like have a look at on social media.
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:Does there seem to be a
community around their business
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:or are they just broadcasting?
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:Um, do they have some kind of group
or presence that you can check out?
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:You know, we're kind of moving out of the
days of big Facebook groups, but there are
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:still people that like Angie, you've got.
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:Super engaged Facebook group around
your business or school is a new kind
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:of big platform that people are using
for groups, that kind of research.
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:Like you could do all this research that
I've just said in what, like 15 minutes,
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:just really to get a sense of who the host
is and what kind of business they've got
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:and how much their audience trusts them.
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:If it's like tick, tick, tick, go for it.
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:This is like.
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:Podcasting 101 people.
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:, this is what people are looking for
when they're coming to your podcast
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:to determine whether they want to
come on your show and, . And I,
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:I love that you said, when we're
looking through this person's podcast,
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:just glancing and seeing, what
their episodes are, if it's like a
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:consistent topic, , is it organized?
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:Is it together?
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:And, the thing that I wrote down from
that is consistency builds trust.
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:It does.
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:It does.
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:I'd love it to not be true, but it's true.
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:It builds trust.
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:So if you want to build trust with
your audience and you want to attract
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:people that want to be guests and your
podcast, like consistency builds trust,
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:consistency in your messaging goes back
to what you are, , talking about a
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:messaging and, it will even spill into
selling your offers and things like that.
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:Consistency builds trust
on and off podcasts.
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:, So I really love that point,
that consistency builds trust.
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:And the other thing is, y'all, please
go and listen to these podcasts
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:that you're trying to be guests on.
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:, I know that this happens so
much because I see it happening,
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:where it's like, no clue.
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:Of what they're walking into of what the
podcast, like none of those things that
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:you've said, like people are not doing
any of this recon or any of this research.
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:Like they are just
hopping on these podcasts.
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:And I mean, , , I'm going to be honest.
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:Like when we were talking, I was like,
I can't go in a podcast if I ain't got a
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:podcast, Mike, cause I'm a podcast person.
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:So my brand, I can't go hop on
with somebody who's out here.
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:That sounds like they're in the
bathroom recording a podcast.
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:Like I can't do that for my brand.
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:Like, I'm not going to do that.
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:So I think that it just depends
again, back to your goals and those
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:kinds of things, but like what you,
what you're, what you're wanting to
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:accomplish, but you do need to listen.
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:And something I think when you were
saying that too, is how, how the host.
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:talks to their people.
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:I think you can tell in there
what kind of rapport they have.
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:Like I talk to my people like I know
them and they, I do, and they know me.
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:And we're like, we BFFs.
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:Like, but there are, you can
tell if there's that disconnect.
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:So I think that's really
important and just something for.
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:You , to look out for and you guys listen
for you to be able , to listen to,,
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:to determine that, that trust factor.
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:So that consistency is, is
there that rapport there?
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:And the other piece was the community that
they have, like building that community
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:around your podcast is important and being
able to see that someone else has that
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:community is, I think a great indicator.
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:So, I love that you said all that.
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:And I just wanted to kind
of recap that for people.
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:How do you, as a business person, you said
something earlier about the difference
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:between if you're trying to Be on a
podcast to grow your business versus
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:you're on there to just tell your story.
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:And it's more personal.
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:My question is, and I feel like this
is something that you help people do
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:and probably help do it within, , the
speakeasy, which , we'll talk about
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:your program in a little bit, but if
I am, because I think that story is
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:so compelling and being able to tell
your story, even as a business owner.
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:if I'm wanting to be on podcasts and I'm
wanting to show up and be this compelling
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:guest for this person, , shouldn't I
be pulling together a story that's kind
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:of a combination of Personal business.
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:, how do I begin to craft this?
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:If I'm going to pitch to you and
say, I'm coming on your podcast,
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:but like, what's my angle?
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:, don't you need to have sort of an angle?
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:So I'm this podcaster.
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:I, part of mine could be, I don't know.
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:I like, we could just use
me for an example, Natalie.
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:Like I started off.
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:The reason why I do
podcasting is because I.
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:I started a podcast as a life
coach, and that was the first
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:thing I did in my business.
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:That was the first marketing thing I
did in my business, which is like so
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:backwards from what everybody teaches.
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:And I got my first client from my podcast.
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:I started getting DMs like crazy of
people who listened to my podcast and
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:they were so impacted and they were like,
Oh my God, I made this . Insert big
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:life choice because I listened to you,
you've changed my life in this way.
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:And I was just , I'm getting chills
because , I felt so much pride in that.
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:And so I was making an impact and
all I was doing was just showing up.
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:I was talking to my car.
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:My sound was.
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:I was just showing up , and speaking
from my heart and these people
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:were being impacted and I was like.
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:Wait a minute.
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:Wait a minute.
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:This is really impactful.
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:This is really impactful platform.
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:And I looked around at all the
people in my audience and all the
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:people around me on my social media.
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:And I'm like, there's some
brilliant people here.
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:I, they need podcasts so that they
can get their brilliance out into
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:the world and they can make impact.
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:They got much more of an
impact I can make if I'm.
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:Helping these people make an impact like
I, what the ripple effect that I will
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:have, I can create even more impact.
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:So that's my sort of origin story
of how I switched from being a life
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:coach to talking about, I didn't
wake up and wanted to do podcast
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:editing or , it's bigger than that.
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:So that's kind of my story.
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:So how would I.
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:Take that and start to position
myself as this, like, here's my
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:story, but it ties into business.
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:, give me your thoughts , on that , and
don't you need to kind of do that?
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:Right.
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:Yeah, you do.
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:All right.
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:So what we're going to do, Angie,
is we're going to talk about all the
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:reasons your origin story is flawless.
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:It's such a fucking good example.
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:And let me pull out why because I'm
sure people listening are like, yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Oh my god.
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:That sounds so good.
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:Let me tell you why it's so good.
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:So a few different things
that you've done there.
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:All right.
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:One of them is you, you
led with your mission.
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:Right.
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:So inside the speakeasy, I
call it manifesto messaging.
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:And it's that sense of like leading
with your mission, bringing people
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:behind you, inviting them in
to join in with your manifesto.
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:Your manifesto, Angie was so clear
that everyone else out there is
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:saying, Oh no, don't start a podcast
for the first thing, and you're out
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:there changing lives from day one.
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:Like that is that's such a powerful.
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:Call to action in the true,
mission sense of call to action.
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:I don't mean buy my thing,
call to action that we all use.
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:And it also shows such a strong
point of view that you are, you're
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:saying something different to what
the industry in general is saying.
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:Normally people say, wait
till you're super experienced.
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:Wait until you've got a signature
offer, da, da, da, da, da.
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:And then start your podcast.
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:You're like, no, like this is how
we can use this marketing channel.
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:So that's one thing you did amazingly
well was you led with mission.
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:Another thing you did really well was
you used what I call moments, which
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:are these little like micro stories
or micro examples within the bigger
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:story to make it so specific to you.
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:So.
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:I don't know if you think of like
a different kind of origin story,
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:you know, so often we hear this.
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:Oh, I was working in
corporate and I got burnt out.
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:So I started my business and now I do.
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:Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that.
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:Like it's a, it's a story.
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:So many of us have got, and it is
so valid, but it falls a little bit
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:flat because we've heard so many
versions of that same story before.
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:Whereas imagine if instead of
saying it like that, you said.
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:Oh my God.
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:So there was this moment
I walked into work.
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:It was a Monday morning.
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:I hadn't even had my morning coffee.
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:Um, Matt from accounts was like,
Natalie, I need to talk to you.
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:And in that moment I was like,
no, something needs to change.
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:And that's when my business was bought.
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:They tell the same story, right?
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:Yeah, they are so different to listen to.
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:And it's because of the specificity
and I call them moments.
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:And Angie you had moments where you talked
about getting DMS from your women, and
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:even the way you said, and they told me
they were insert big life choice here.
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:Yeah, it's funny, it's relatable.
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:Yeah.
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:You're just a brilliant storyteller.
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:And there are two other things that
you did to make that a really, not
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:just an enjoyable story to listen
to, but a story that builds your
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:credibility, that shares something
about your point of view, and that
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:really invites trust from the listener.
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:They're the kind of origin
stories that we want.
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:I love that.
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:And thank you for that.
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:And I can add on to that.
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:The moment when it's super dramatic,
, there was a moment when you said that
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:I was like, Oh, when I was working in
corporate, when I was working in New
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:York city, and I was had this life
that was quote unquote successful.
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:And I was making over six figures
and everybody was so proud of me.
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:And I was just not into it.
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:And one day I was riding
the train to my job.
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:And I quit my job on the,
, platform, subway platform in
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:New York City, in Times Square.
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:Okay.
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:How about that for a moment?
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:That's another moment.
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:Mic drop.
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:That's another moment.
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:And then I called my sister in law
and was like, Hey, I just quit my job.
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:I have no plan.
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:Meet me at Grand Central Station.
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:And let's have drinks.
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:I need lots of drinks.
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:And so that's, that's how my next
evolution of my life was, you know,
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:bored when I was like, this is just crap.
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:I don't want to do this.
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:But anyway, I love that.
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:And I love that , you mentioned Being
a good storyteller because that also
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:builds trust it gets people to get to
know you and feel more connected to you.
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:And I think that's really important when
you're Guesting and also when you are
581
:like having your own podcast, so someone
asked me this question Not too long ago
582
:in My DMS, I believe, and it was around
because being a good storyteller, for
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:me, a lot of the stuff comes natural.
584
:I will just be honest.
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:You guys like I, it doesn't
come natural for everybody.
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:It really, really doesn't.
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:And that was something
that I had to learn.
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:In what I do is that podcasting
and podcast skills don't come
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:natural to a lot of people.
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:Like being able to like create
an episode that is engaging and
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:that has a point and that serves a
purpose and that lands the plane.
592
:Like that's my new like thing,
land the damn plane people.
593
:What is the damn point?
594
:And interviewing people is a skill
and you get, you, you hone it
595
:and you have to get better at it.
596
:So someone asked me about, um,
and just back up real quick, I'm
597
:very open and can be very open.
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:And , I just don't care
about people's opinions.
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:in a way that will throw me off track
from being able to say what I want to say.
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:So I do care.
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:There's a little care.
602
:I'm not gonna say I don't care at all, but
it doesn't, not enough to hinder me from
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:being my authentic, who I am raw self.
604
:And there are people who really do
struggle with That part with the
605
:being really authentic , and real
and being able to share their story.
606
:And I had someone ask me, how do
you share something really personal?
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:How do you share this personal thing?
608
:, how do you get over this hump when
maybe it could bring harm to others?
609
:Who are maybe there's others who are part
of your story that you don't necessarily
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:want to talk about and maybe that's
something that I think it gets people
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:stuck sometimes in their messaging
and in their storytelling because they
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:think that they're scared to talk about
it or it's something maybe they have
613
:something really powerful to say but It
involves other people or they're worried
614
:about what other people would think.
615
:And you probably run into this
too, as you're helping people craft
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:their story and their messaging.
617
:So what would you say to someone who's
really struggling with this idea of
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:how authentic, how much story, how do
I create this compelling story, maybe
619
:without stepping on toes or should I just.
620
:Not worry about it.
621
:Should I say, fuck it?
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:What would you say to someone who's in
this place of, I want to be authentic.
623
:I want to be a better storyteller, but
I feel like I don't know , how much to
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:tell what to include, like that sort of
thing, or it's kind of in that place of
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:being a little bit scared or apprehensive.
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:Yeah.
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:So we coach on this all
the time in this week.
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:And the biggest thing that I would
say is have a sense of what you
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:want to share and what you don't
want to share before you hit record.
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:So if you're like Angie, and you're
like, fuck it, I'll just share what comes
631
:up in the moment, and I'm not going to
have a massive vulnerability hangover.
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:I'm all good.
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:Then.
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:Do that.
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:Don't over prepare and kind of make it
sound a bit more forced than it needs to.
636
:But if you're somebody like
Angie's just been describing
637
:that either is worried about not
sharing enough or sharing too much.
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:Your secret weapon is preparing.
639
:Before the interviews, don't use the
interview where you're recording and
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:where, so where all of the brilliant
things about podcast guesting, like
641
:it's evergreen and you want to record
once and people can find you forever.
642
:Don't use those things against yourself.
643
:Don't share something that
is now on the internet.
644
:And you're like, Oh, I really
wish I hadn't said that.
645
:I mean, if you, if that really happens,
you can ask the host to edit it out.
646
:. The best thing to do is have a real sense
of what details do you want to share.
647
:So in that example, which details are
yours to share and which details maybe
648
:other people's to share or not share.
649
:And then you can craft the story
around what you do want to share.
650
:And there's so much that you can
say in a story, leaving pretty big
651
:gaps, but doing it in a way that
invites curiosity from the listener.
652
:And you don't have to
fill those gaps for them.
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:you don't feel like you have to
say absolutely everything , to
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:make it a great story.
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:A bit of suspense can be a brilliant
element to have in stories as well.
656
:. And I like that.
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:, here's your permission slip you get
to decide what you want to divulge and
658
:how open about something you want to be
just because you see Angie over here,
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:just Balls to the wall, doesn't care,
like saying everything she wants to
660
:say, like, it doesn't have to be you.
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:You don't have to have my same personality
to be successful at crafting your story.
662
:You don't have to have to be open and
tell every single detail of your life.
663
:And people would be, you would be
shocked at how private I am, even
664
:though I seem so public, like people
would be really shocked at that.
665
:At how, what I share is things that are
easy for me to share, but there are a
666
:lot of things that I keep for myself and
there are a lot of ways that I am still
667
:a very private person, even though I show
up very authentic and raw and there are
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:a lot of things that I keep for myself.
669
:And you would be, you would be, people
would be surprised because I seem
670
:just so extroverted and like, yeah,
here, whatever I talk about, whatever.
671
:But I there, I am actually.
672
:A much more private person and,
and I'm much, I, I can be a shy
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:person too, which is like, blues.
674
:So hard to believe.
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:I can be, I'm telling you.
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:And that's actually, I
used to be really shy.
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:And in 10th grade, 10th grade,
I decided, I made a decision.
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:I was like, you know what?
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:I'm not going to be shy anymore.
680
:Like forget it.
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:And I was at a football game and there
was these guys who were sitting in
682
:front of me and this was like my
pivotal, I'm not shy anymore moment.
683
:And there was these guys sitting
in front of me and one of the
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:guys kept like rubbing his head.
685
:Like he had a headache.
686
:I don't know why this had to be
my unshy moment, but I offered
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:the guy to rub his head for him.
688
:A random stranger now, granted,
he was a very cute guy.
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:Okay.
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:There was like, it was a little
more motivation in there just
691
:than a random guy, cute guy.
692
:And he was like, his head was hurting
and I was like, Hey, did your head hurt?
693
:You want me to rub it for you?
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:And I don't know why that was my
moment, but like that was my moment.
695
:And then After that, it was, it was over.
696
:I was like, I got to get over this hump.
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:No more shy Angie.
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:And so from then on, I've been
like, I went really in the opposite
699
:direction, but there are still little
moments where I can be, I can be shy.
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:And so it's just, it's interesting,
but we've mentioned a couple
701
:times here about the speakeasy.
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:And I really want , to
talk about, your program.
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:And not just because it's like
about to open cart, because
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:obviously this will be evergreen.
705
:And this will be here, but I, I just
really, what you teach and how you
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:teach podcast guesting is, it just
feels like such a holistic thing
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:and such something that you can
take beyond just Podcast guesting.
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:Like, these are lessons that you
can bring to your own podcast.
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:These are lessons that you can
weave into your messaging in general
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:and your business and everything.
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:People are always shocked when they
do calls with me and it's like I'm
712
:digging into their messaging like
when we're doing their podcast.
713
:Like it could because you have to, right?
714
:Like, that's a big part of it is
storytelling and your messaging on
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:your own podcast and being on others.
716
:And so I really love the
way that you teach this.
717
:So I, I want to talk more about
the speakeasy and what, what it is
718
:and why you, I guess, first I want
to ask, what made you create this?
719
:Like, why did you create
this, this program?
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:What need did you see?
721
:Yeah, so I think part of this is
from my own life that before I
722
:started my business, I was director
of partnerships for a nonprofit.
723
:And that was all about influencing.
724
:So I was using messaging and speaking,
I was doing public speaking, I was doing
725
:private meetings with influential people
trying to influence policy change.
726
:And I just love those skills like they,
I can see so many times in my own life
727
:and other people's lives where having
the ability to advocate for yourself
728
:and influence somebody and speak up
for yourself and be articulate and
729
:encourage people to listen to you and
take notice of what you're saying.
730
:They're just really fucking good
life skills to have in business.
731
:They're essential, but even, I've
got personal stories that I could
732
:tell around where Having those
skills have changed my life.
733
:And I used to be a social worker.
734
:I've seen, I've seen those skills change
women's life when they leave a violent
735
:partner or kids life when you know
when they can advocate for themselves
736
:around what they want in terms of
their care, all that kind of stuff.
737
:So that's the kind of
background that I brought to it.
738
:And then when I started my business.
739
:Visibility coaching and I'm
laughing because I didn't really
740
:know what I meant by that.
741
:And so no one else did.
742
:So like, you can see how that went, right.
743
:But what I meant was like
partnerships, development and
744
:messaging, that kind of stuff.
745
:And I just started to see this.
746
:Pattern with my clients where
they were like, all I want
747
:to do is speak on podcasts.
748
:Can we do that?
749
:And I was like, yeah, of
course we can do that.
750
:I know how to pitch.
751
:I know how to develop a persuasive
message, all that kind of stuff.
752
:So I started by doing VIP days
and then I got asked, can you
753
:make this into a group program?
754
:And so it used to be called the pod squad.
755
:It was a pop up that I
did as the pod squad.
756
:And then it's just grown and evolved.
757
:Now it's the speakeasy and now it's
serving this community of amazing
758
:entrepreneurs that are growing their
business and speaking on podcasts
759
:and sharing their point of view and
shaping this wild west of online
760
:business that we all work in.
761
:And I just love it.
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:I really, really love it.
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:So that's why That's why it's continued.
764
:And you can see the growth in when,
when people dial in their messaging
765
:for podcast guesting, it doesn't
just stop at podcast guesting.
766
:Like you'll see this with
your podcast as well.
767
:Like sure their podcast is
shit hot, but then it ripples
768
:through their whole business.
769
:And I love that.
770
:I love seeing that, that ripple
effect through how people
771
:show up and their confidence.
772
:And, and of course, going
on a podcast tour like that.
773
:Yeah.
774
:Yeah, yeah, I completely agree.
775
:People are always shocked.
776
:Like I said, when they work with
me, because this is something that
777
:ripples through your business, that
ripples through your messaging.
778
:And I do talk also a lot about that
mission based marketing and . How to
779
:get people hooked into your mission
because , everybody loves a good
780
:mission to sink their teeth into that
they can come along with you for the
781
:ride with and , people love that.
782
:So tell us more about, , why so
now we know, , where the speakeasy
783
:came from, but , who is this for?
784
:And, and what are some of the things
that you work on inside of the program?
785
:Yeah, so it's for
changemaker entrepreneurs.
786
:Is the way that I say it.
787
:And by that, I mean, entrepreneurs
with a mission, um, everyone
788
:inside the speakeasy.
789
:Most people are coaches or
service based providers.
790
:We've got all sorts of people in there.
791
:Copywriters, Facebook ads,
strategists, designers, I know
792
:all sorts of people in there.
793
:But what unites everybody is And most of
them don't want to be on social media.
794
:I don't want to rely on social media.
795
:So then you need to find
another way of finding people.
796
:They are people who want to talk
about something that matters to
797
:them, who want to share nuance,
who want to be in conversation.
798
:They don't like that kind of broadcast y
feeling that you get from social media.
799
:So that's who's in there.
800
:And then, I mean, it's set up like
a pretty traditional group program
801
:that you'd see on the online streets.
802
:It's, you know, as soon as you
join, you get access to the online
803
:portal and the curriculum inside
the portal takes you through every
804
:single step from, yeah, sure.
805
:I want to speak on podcasts.
806
:I have no idea what I'm doing.
807
:To having your messaging sorted,
knowing exactly how to pitch, knowing
808
:how to find aligned podcasts, knowing
what it is about you specifically
809
:that makes a brilliant guest.
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:And then ultimately going
on your podcast tour.
811
:So there's live coaching.
812
:There's a community space.
813
:It just gives you everything
you need to grow your business.
814
:Right.
815
:I love it.
816
:And of course , it's something that,
, I've never personally gone through it.
817
:I'm thinking about it just so you know,
I need to come and get into this thing.
818
:I need to come and get into this
speakeasy just because, , , like I
819
:said, I'm going on a podcast tour.
820
:I, this, even just this chat, Natalie,
I've got notes and just like note to
821
:all of you podcast hosts out here who are
doing interviews, write notes , as you're
822
:interviewing and refer back to your notes.
823
:It's going to help you create a
better episode so that you can
824
:say, Oh, you just said X, Y, Z.
825
:Let's talk deeper on that.
826
:A lot of people don't do that.
827
:So just give me a note.
828
:I always have a ton of notes, but in this,
it just, even just talking to you, I've
829
:been able to, in my mind, figure out.
830
:I think I know what I'm going
to pitch to people already.
831
:I love that.
832
:I think I know what my, I
think I know what my hook is.
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:I think I know what my signature talk is.
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:And how to begin to refine
that, to pitch that to people.
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:And I could see it working for lots
of people's audiences that are far and
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:wide beyond, , beyond even business,
cause it's about how to bring your
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:brilliance, your impact, , and I, of
course, I talk about it through using
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:podcasting, but it's deeper than that.
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:Which is what I love that you
do and what you, what you teach.
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:So if you guys are listening and
you are thinking about, you know,
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:working with Natalie and you want to
dip your toes into podcast guesting
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:before you do your podcast or as
using it as a growth strategy.
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:I think , this is such a great offer and a
great way to, , to get yourself out there.
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:And I just believe in, I
believe in your mission.
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:I believe in how you teach this.
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:And.
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:It to me, it's better than, and yes,
you, I know you help with the pitches,
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:but it's better than just hiring someone
who's just pitching you, who's not helping
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:you perfect and craft this and really
understand how to pull this out of you.
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:And so I would just, I think
that it's such a benefit for
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:all areas of your business.
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:Yeah.
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:And I think there's so much value
in developing your own messaging
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:and not outsourcing it in the same
way that I think you should only
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:ever hire a copywriter once you've
already done the work to have your
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:message, know what your voice is.
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:Otherwise you're just giving over the
power to somebody else to kind of design,
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:how people experience your business.
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:And I think Taking the time to
be supported, to develop your own
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:messaging for starting your own
podcast or guesting on podcasts is
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:going to ripple through your business.
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:And you're going to end up with something
that is more you and more powerful
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:than anyone else could create for you.
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:Yeah.
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:I, I 100 percent agree with that.
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:So tell us, Natalie, we're so happy.
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:I'm so appreciative that you decided
to do this on the, on a whim with me,
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:because that's just how I operate.
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:We finally got it going, but
tell everyone, how can we.
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:Find you.
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:How can we find information
on the speakeasy?
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:Obviously, I will put
that into the show notes.
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:, but tell us how we can,
connect with you further.
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:Yeah, sure.
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:So my website is nataliecousa.
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:com.
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:Cousa is K O U S S A.
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:The speakeasy is there of course, but if
you are joining, so if it's open when you
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:listen to this episode or if it's, if it's
closed, you can just join the wait list.
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:, use the link in the show notes
because Angie is a referral
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:partner for the speakeasy.
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:So I would love you to use Angie's link.
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:, but yeah, nataliecousa.
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:com all the show notes is.
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:And I did talk about that.
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:I think I'm going to put a little, I
might put like a bonus for joining.
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:So you get something from me as well
if you join, ,, through my link.
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:So check out the, , link in
the show notes, you guys.
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:And thank you so much,
Natalie, for being here.
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:I loved catching up with you
and sharing your, sharing your
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:brilliance with the audience.
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:I appreciate it so much.
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:Thanks, Angie.